The opposite of Love is not hate it is indifference
Indifference is the absence of emotion. When there is only indifference left in a marriage there is nothing left, only divorce.
After twenty years of marriage and a year before the divorce, it happened, my spouse said, “Someday one of us will have enough nerve to say I’m leaving”.
I didn’t want to leave but it took a year of indifference from my partner to change my mind. I still remember when I said those words “I’m leaving” which was answered with “No, I’m leaving”. My point being, total indifference over a long period of time, a marriage does not make.
Even me, the product of divorced parents who swore to never let it happen to me, needs a loving relationship. A happy marriage can’t survive without demonstrative love, in some form or another.
So don’t let your marriage get to the point of indifference. Express your love for your partner on a regular basis, both emotionally and physically. Giving by both people in a relationship is a major part of the key to happiness.
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Read my post “Not a happy relationship and you’ve tried everything” to understand how it all went wrong.
